tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3104621925012833877.post6570119638502905234..comments2023-06-29T09:08:41.444-04:00Comments on Ginny in Boston: Do you give your passwords to your significant other?Ginnyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11686450030075980690noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3104621925012833877.post-12249128616352293912014-11-09T18:48:45.138-05:002014-11-09T18:48:45.138-05:00I agree with you. It's ridiculous to demand th...I agree with you. It's ridiculous to demand that.<br /><br />A relationship should be built on trust more than anything else... and if you are demanding passwords to snoop on your SO, then there's obvious some deeply rooted trust issues that obsessive snooping aren't going to fix.<br /><br />If you're dating someone and you're comfortable exchanging passwords or you need their password for some circumstance then that is one thing... but demanding their password to keep them from cheating or doing anything you disapprove of is another.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18237786907592000254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3104621925012833877.post-90539237637084071292014-11-08T11:57:35.864-05:002014-11-08T11:57:35.864-05:001) My definition of "trust" means that y...1) My definition of "trust" means that you should NOT need your significant other's passwords.<br />2) If someone really wants to, they can always set up another anonymous e-mail account. It's not that difficult.Sparkling Redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12799366562472325812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3104621925012833877.post-11753679545954734262014-11-06T21:21:32.820-05:002014-11-06T21:21:32.820-05:00See that's what I don't like, the demandin...See that's what I don't like, the demanding of the passwords. It just seems wrong.Ginnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11686450030075980690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3104621925012833877.post-35671921787918530712014-11-06T21:21:04.411-05:002014-11-06T21:21:04.411-05:00That last sentence put a smile on my face :)That last sentence put a smile on my face :)Ginnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11686450030075980690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3104621925012833877.post-88860136984028450092014-11-06T11:30:38.732-05:002014-11-06T11:30:38.732-05:00The only passwords I gave to my husband were my ba...The only passwords I gave to my husband were my bank and online bill pay passwords when I was overseas for six weeks. Made sense. Other than that, I would feel like I was being really distrustful and snoop-y if I had his email and iphone passwords. <br /><br />One of my girlfriends (who is twice divorced at 32) would demand her exes email passwords and she even installed an app on her new ex-husband's phone (without him knowing it) so that she could read all of his texts from her phone. She was doing some crazy stuff.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04546645885144133590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3104621925012833877.post-78059514105843173402014-11-05T18:09:01.138-05:002014-11-05T18:09:01.138-05:00I agree. If you feel a need to snoop, then the ...I agree. If you feel a need to snoop, then the relationship's not good anyway. I have nothing to hide, but my husband doesn't "demand" to have my passwords to stuff, and I don't know his passwords. If we need to know for some reason, we'd just ask. We've been together since before passwords :)Abbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05853360875281742784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3104621925012833877.post-20447704075667961292014-11-05T08:42:52.632-05:002014-11-05T08:42:52.632-05:00I agree with Katie. If there is no trust, break up...I agree with Katie. If there is no trust, break up. Simple. Demanding passwords is nonsense.MARTINhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05378989331536560348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3104621925012833877.post-59860291460751775572014-11-04T22:21:15.827-05:002014-11-04T22:21:15.827-05:00That's a good reason though not because you ne...That's a good reason though not because you need to babysit someone so they can prove something to you.Ginnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11686450030075980690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3104621925012833877.post-83293032229158726192014-11-04T22:17:52.497-05:002014-11-04T22:17:52.497-05:00I agree. If there is no trust at all how can you h...I agree. If there is no trust at all how can you have a relationshipGinnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11686450030075980690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3104621925012833877.post-11868428253534740892014-11-04T09:01:44.707-05:002014-11-04T09:01:44.707-05:00I'd give my friends my password I think before...I'd give my friends my password I think before a SO but I'm also single and never really had this be an issue. Plus, my reason is morbid. If something happened to me, I'd want someone to let my friends online know, and that person would probably be a friend vs a family member. Bhttp://youfancymemad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3104621925012833877.post-6763718775988142872014-11-03T22:10:55.693-05:002014-11-03T22:10:55.693-05:00Wow. Honestly, if you don't trust your signifi...Wow. Honestly, if you don't trust your significant other enough to give them privacy in their email, why wouldn't you just break up? It makes no sense to me.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02762459132494185766noreply@blogger.com